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The easiest way to prevent a divorce and to stay happy in your marriage is to carry out a survey while you are still single and fish out certain things while your eyes is wide open and there are no chains binding you to your partner. Your antenna is better able to discern danger signals while you are single than after you are married, so we say, if you don’t want a divorce, it starts from while you are still single.
There are traits that some people carry from while they are single and they cannot drop it even after marriage. It would be like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become left-handed so you need to shine your eyes now and watch out for the following kinds of people. Be wary of these 5 groups of people and never (under any circumstance) accept their proposal or propose to them.
1. Those Who Have Excessive Or Inadequate Libido
Sexual intercourse is a very important factor in marriage, but when you have a spouse that needs it for breakfast, lunch, dinner and supper, it becomes difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity also knocks on the door. On the other hand, when you have a spouse that hates sex or thinks that sex should be an annual event undertaken during the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration, then you know that you have some real trouble in the house. Infidelity is also usually becomes the solution. This is made worse by the fact that sex is one topic that couples find difficult to discuss, even with those who genuinely want to help resolve the marital rift.
2. Those Who Can Never Apologise
They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you, but still, they would never apologise, because they believe that it would belittle them. When you are wrong, you apologize to them, and when you are right, you still apologise to them, hoping that they would change. But they never do. Soon you start to feel irritated and agitated. The love and respect you felt for them starts to wear out.
3. Those Who Can Never Say Thank You
Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful. They make statements like: “Why should I say thank you when you are just doing your duty?” Some would say that their gratitude is in their heart. So, do I have to open your heart to see the gratitude inside and get it? Ingratitude is an attitude that causes irritation, frustration and unhappiness. Such people also believe the world owes them a lot. They go around their activities with an entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please. You are better off trying to please an irate donkey.
4. Men Who Think Women Are To Be Seen But Not Heard
In spite of the depth of education they profess, some men still live in the 16th century. It is true that marriage is not a zone for feminist crusade, but if a man has archaic views about women, then please avoid him like you would do an Ebola patient. Watch out for statements like: “How can an ordinary woman want to be the CEO?” “How can a woman debate with men?”
5. That Lady Who Believes She Doesn’t Need A Man In Her Life
Such women believe that they are self-sufficient in all things. They have the I-don’t-give-a-damn attitude. Men feel ill at ease when they are with women who don’t allow a room in their lives for a man to fill. Such women find it difficult to express love. They always believe a man wants to dominate them. They are usually too defensive, too competitive, and too contentious. Men who relate with them usually feel frustrated. Such men always choose their words and actions carefully to avoid quarrels. That smothers affection and joy.
