He might not be taking you so serious. You deserve to know where you stand, at least.
How do you know where you really stand with a man?
How can you be sure to an extent that you are indeed your boo’s boo?
Are you sure he is not just playing along, waiting to kick you to the side and get into a relationship with his ‘real girlfriend’?
If you aren’t sure, these 5 highlighted points below will help you know if indeed your boyfriend sees you as his girlfriend.
He doesn’t reach out if you do not
If we are being honest with ourselves, you know, even as you are reading this article that the person you think is your boo hardly reaches out to you and if you do not call or text him, he wouldn’t reach out to you. All the time
He’s never jealous about you
How does it happen in a normal balanced relationship that a guy does not ever get jealous about you?
I really do not care how calm and collected the guy is, theredefinitely will be an exhibition of healthy jealousy when it comes to you.
If a guy does not ever get jealous about you, even when he absolutely has reasons to ask questions and all that, he could be letting you know that you are free to do what you want, because as far as he is concerned, what you have is just temporary anyway.
He says he’s not into labels
When a guy says he’s not into labels, it means no two things- you are simply not seen as his babe.
Forget the grand explanation he gives or how he tries to wriggle out of it with some silly explanation.
You are simply not as special to him as he might be to you.
He doesn’t flaunt you AT ALL
There have been several office events, many occasions that required him to go with a companion but he does not take you. Never.
Why? He wanted to appear single and very willing to mingle at those events— that’s why.
He sees you as a steady supply of sex
Again we get to the issue of the opportunistic knacks. The one he sees as his ‘sare wa gba’ [This is an emerging Yoruba slang for which loosely translates to Booty Call.]
As a matter of fact, this might just be the reason why he is even making the little attempts to stay in touch and keep you around.
Hence, whenever he manages to create little time, [or sometimes after you have pestered him for a date or hangout] he wants not much else asides touching and torching that body as much as he can.
In conclusion, I need to add, there are no two ways to it. If you ever feel you are not sure of where you stand with a man.
You should ask, no matter how awkward it is. Even if the answer is going to hurt you real bad, you really should still ask, except you are enjoying the uncertainty.
Then it’s just totally fine.