For Guys: 5 Reasons Girls Won’t Sleep With You Even If They Really Want To

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It’s not secret that women LOVE s3x, even the ‘good girls.’ And their orgasms are supposedly ten times stronger than guys’. Yet, there are certain situations that will nearly always stop girls giving it up, even when they really want to.

1. BECAUSE OF SOCIETY AND SLUT SHAMING

It’s frustrating that slut-shaming exists. Society shames girls who sleep with men they’ve just met, and most girls will place their reputation ahead of even the most gorgeous guy. She’ll rarely admit she wants to have sex with you, so be subtle in your attempts to get her into bed. A great first step is to get her away from her friends, where she’ll feel more free to release her se xual side.

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2. BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH YOU YET

A cute chick could be massively attracted to you, but that won’t lead to sex until she feels a certain level of comfort around you. Firstly, she needs to feel safe alone in your presence. You might be handsome, but you’re still a stranger who can overpower her. Secondly, she needs to feel some sort of emotional connection. Se x is an emotional experience for her, so you’ll need to touch her heart before you touch her body. Don’t try and take her home the minute she admits she’s attracted. That’s a great way to make her uncomfortable. Instead, spend some time alone in public. Share stories, take her places, get to know her.

 

3. BECAUSE OF POOR LOGISTICS

Our slut-shaming society also tells her that getting sex should not involve any effort on her part. Hence, she’ll nearly always reject a 90-minute night-bus journey for se x

 

4. OR THEY COULD FEEL UGLY AND INSECURE:

his chick could look like the next Victoria’s Secret model to you, but there’s no telling how she’s feeling about her body. She could be on her period, feeling bloated, unshaven or paranoid about a small mole on her arm. These are perfectly rational reasons for her to reject se x.

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